Here I sit . . . .

We have been busy trying to get Jessica outfitted and physically ready to leave our home to start her new adventure out in the wild west. Some days have been filled with emotion, and other days excitement. Do you remember days like this? I do!!

Yesterday was a crazy day. Storms everywhere! Really bad weather! But that did not stop us from meeting up in the afternoon at Sam's club to buy some new tires for Jessica's little Kia Sportage. We then ventured to the mall in Huntsville to outfit Jessica with some new blue jeans that don't smell like Big Bob Gibson's! (our dogs love her when she comes home from work!) We stopped at Macaroni Grill for what the girls are calling "The Last Supper" and enjoyed each other's company! We raced home to Decatur all exhausted and ready for bed!

Today, the new tires are going on the vehicle and chores must be done for the new week. I am not ready for Easter, but will be ready by this afternoon. Coaching Jessica to get packed and staying happy will be a chore, but one that can be done! Papa better gear up, he will have a very eventful trip across country with Jessica! We will send him home with a door prize for his willingness to help! I think Peach Nehi will do the trick! Sometimes just thinking about all that needs to be done is a little overwhelming! Oh well, just get started and the rest will take care of itself!

Eric is off at the Rodeo in Salina, Utah this weekend. I know he loves this and enjoys being there and working hard! I wish I could see him in action! He wrote the girls a letter this week and a short note to Phil and I which we really loved! I know he is a crazy mess, but we love him!

Well, the day has started and I haven't. I guess I better get busy! Wal-Mart is waiting!

Thank You Jen!

Great video that Jennifer McCleod shared on her blog! How touching and inspiring!

What's going on the . . . . in here!

Not too long ago, (a few months) Phil started feeling, not quite himself. I encouraged him to go see our family doctor. He really did not want to go, but eventually he did. He told me that he felt like an old man in a young man's body and couldn't quite put his finger on it. The doctor ran all kinds of tests. We did find out that he has arthritis in his knees and he takes meds for that now and we also found out that he has a Chiari Malformation and hydrocephalus. This little thing is at the base of his skull and is causing quite the stir. We are now pursuing treatment options with a Neurosurgeon. He has had 1 CT, 2 MRI's, and has seen an ophthalmologist. We also found out that he has some macular degeneration in one of his eyes. I guess he was right. He is an old man in a young mans body! We have always joked about him being the old man, but now I guess it's really true.

One of the things the neuro doc has talked about doing is a shunt to releave pressure and driain fluid from his brain, the other thing is the decompression at the back of the skull. As a matter of fact, Stephanie Willis (Hatch) had this very thing done about 4 years ago. Very interesting! Her experience, which turned out good, is what we are looking forward to. So, right now, we are waiting on the ophthalmologist to send her report back to the neuro and we will see what happens after that.

We have had the opportunity to fast and pray and exercise our faith so that we might have the best outcome. Lisa, here is another story of the "works" part of the faith factor!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arnold-Chiari_malformation

Here is a link that gives a pretty good explanation of what it is and how to treat it! So, basically, Phil's brain is bigger than his skull! We always knew he was smart, but really!!

RELIEF SOCIETY! YEAH!

Click on the short video! I love this!

www.reliefsocity.lds.org

Life is like a box of chocolates . . . .

You really never know what life may bring. You do all that you can and all that you have been taught to stay sane in a world full of turmoil and trials. It is because of the these teachings that we stay on course and rely on our Heavenly Father to help us muddle through! Sometimes even small things seem huge! But no matter what, we have been carried and the trials seem smaller, more manageable.

Our lives have taken quite a shift lately. Of course, Eric has been gone from our home, but not our hearts for 3 years. We miss him and love him, but really it is a good miss! Jessica is preparing to move west. We are proud of her decision and grateful for the support that we receive from family and friends in this endeavor. I am already getting my mind in the mode for "loosing" more child to adulthood! Just thinking about all that needs to be done and following through is very overwhelming. I know she feels that way too. She is her mother's child in that her heart is directly linked to her tear ducts, so needless to say, this has been a very emotional week for us. You never really think when they are small that this time will come so fast! Mom told me once when I was very frustrated with the kids when they were little, "Don't wish this time away." What great advice because I know I have done just that from time to time without really realizing it!

We have been having "do you remember when" sessions lately. How did we ever get through all those years! Have we been good enough parents? Did we teach them all the important things they need to know? Thanks to a wonderful family, they were always surrounded by examples of love, kindess, and charity. Will they reflect that example in their lives?

Not too long ago at church, one of the member of our ward came up to us and said, "Hey, you guys are almost empty nesters!" That was kind of a reality check. I guess that is inevitable. We are fastly becoming accustomed to the idea! What am I crying about! Life really is like a box of chocolates . . . .

One Of My Heroes!

I have the great priviledge of teaching the 15, 16, and 17 year old Sunday School class at church! What a great group of youth! I love it and them! I am also grateful for the opportunity to study the Doctrine and Covenants and Church History this year! I love the prophet, Joseph, and this little video really hits the mark!

Super Bowl Sunday Again!

I think this is where I started my blog last year! On Super Bowl Sunday! Again, I find myself chronically my experiences for the last few weeks and realized this momentous event! I have enjoyed reading and keeping up with other blogs this past year, and I am continually inspired by them! I am grateful for friends and family! So this would be a good time to add yet another silly posting!

Yesterday when I got home from the mall with Sara, a package had arrived from Utah. My friend and kindred spirit sister had sent me a package! What could it be! T-shirts! Not just any t-shirts, but ones that attest to the victory for the Utah Utes in the historic Sugar Bowl where they whooped Alabama's can! As you can see, we gladly put them on. Not only did we get t-shirts, but one of my favorite candy bars, the Big Hunk, which you cannot get here in Alabama. Yes, she does know my weakness! I had a really hard time wanting to share this treat, but alas, I did! As you can tell by Phil's fashionable eye wear, we did watch the 3-D halftime show during the Super Bowl!